I do not recall where exactly I purchased Girls Just Wanna Have Funds by Molly Benjamin; but it has helped me with making better financial decisions and learning new skills. High school does not prepare you for real-world finances. You learn yourself or via tertiary education. It seemed like a light and easy to follow read, also explaining finance in layman’s terms rather than using jargon that is no easily understandable unless you work in that field. The book has taught me better money management skills. Here are the key lessons that stuck with me: Bottom line: Girls Just Wanna…
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A strict program essentially sets strong boundaries and follows through on them. At least that is my understanding. There comes a moment when motivation stops working. Not because you’ve failed, but because inspiration was never meant to carry you long-term. What rebuilds a life is structure. What restores confidence is consistency. What creates change is discipline. 2026 is not about becoming someone new.It’s about returning to myself through deliberate, repeatable actions. This year, I’m committing to a strict program—not as a punishment, but as a demonstration of self-respect in practice. Discipline, for me, means doing what needs to be done…
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One-sided friendship is defined as an individual who invests more in the friendship than the other. Often, not reciprocate and contribute very little to the friendship. Yet expects(the friend who invests) to continually show up. Such friendships often leave the more giving individual feeling unappreciated, neglected, or emotionally drained. First step is reflection and recognising patterns that will lead you to protecting your energy, givin giving you peace of mind and creating healthier connections. Differences in Hobbies or Interests As people age, their interests and hobbies change. I’ve always believed that a good friendship is based on common interests, hobbies,…
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Disclaimer: All names and specific details have been modified to prevent identification and to respect the privacy of those mentioned Throughout my adult years, I’ve crossed paths with many people—some I once called friends, others simply acquaintances. But only three individuals have ever truly shown genuine care, value, and respect. One of them remains like a sister to me, even to this day. The other two are no longer part of my life, but I still wish them nothing but the best. They stood by me during some of my lowest moments, and for that, I will always be grateful.…

